Hi Claire, I'm pleased that you have joined us here on the forum.
I totally understand what you mean about Shoes! I live in trainers nearly all the time!
(Which limits the clothes I can wear.)
I'm Fiona, 53, and I was a single parent for many years, but my children are now in their 30's.
I have one Grandaughter who is 9 years old.
I have had R.A for 15 years.
Before the R.A I loved to go on long walks and still do occasionally, but usually in Spain as I have
often found my symptoms better there.
I don't know whether it's because of the climate or just less stress when on holiday!
I shall look out for your posts.
Best wishes,
Fiona